WHAT IS THE FIRST STEP IN MAKING YOUR DREAM A REALITY?

Now that you know where you are going, what is next? You now know what you should be living for. You can see vividly the life you desire to live. So what is your next step? How do you bring your desire to reality? What do you do next? Where do you go next? What time do you do what? The questions will continue to come as long as the vision is clear.

Do you know what I will suggest you do?

Look for money? No.  

Start working on your desire immediately? No. 

Ask for assistance from people? No.

Float a company or start an organization? No.

Are you still guessing? Okay, you have given up. This is what I will advise you to do – sit! Sit with a pen and a blank paper in a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. And plan!

A lot of mistakes would not have been made. A lot of regrets could have been avoided. A lot of waste of resources could have been saved if proper planning has been done. But many see it as a waste of time to plan. If they plan at all, they give it so little thought and time that the planning is as good as none.

There was once a king who desires to build a house of worship for his God. He perceived that he is not the best person to build it and so determine to have his son build it. He made a design of the house. He got a suitable land. And made an estimate of all the materials needed. He purchased and stored all these materials in sizes, quantity and finest quality. When his son came to the scene all he had to do was to supervise the building. For many generations in that kingdom that house was a point of reference for the entire citizen in extravagance and workmanship. This is the result of planning!

The king had time to plan since he was not going to do the building himself and he did not want to weigh down his son with the whole project. So he concentrated on planning and did a thorough job of it. He had time to think out all the details and nothing escapes his thought. He did the necessary research and made the right contacts. He had opportunity to weigh options and pick the best alternative. His job was to plan and he did it with all his might.

Though we do not have the luxury of time and singleness of participation like this king, it will help if we plan our success journey as seriously as the king did. Think of it, having a plan for your life. A road map that help in shaping your decisions and actions. It brings uniformity and coherence into your decisions and actions. You are taking decision and acting on different areas of your life but following the same road map that leads to one end – the ultimate goal of your life.

The life which is unexamined is not worth living –Socrates

Dare to examine your life now. Set goals to achieve by time. Set yearly goals. Set five years goals. Set ten years goals. Set goals for different areas of your life. Set goals for your personal development. Set goals for your career development. Set goals for your finances. Set goals for your social life. Determine what you want to achieve within a specific period and how you want to achieve it.

Take note of your starting point. Identify your gifts, talents and resources. Be conscious of your strengths as well as your weaknesses. Plan around your strength and work out how to complement your weaknesses. Pencil down those who have similar purpose and vision as yours and determine how you will link up with them directly or indirectly for mentor-ship.

To plan your life is to walk through your life in your mind and write it down. It is seeing each step you will take in the future. It is seeing how you will take the steps, and where you will take the steps.

Planning your life is living your life in your mind. It helps you to anticipate possible challenges and their solution even before you take the first step.

Planning propel you to action. Actions bring the vision to reality!

NUGGET ON PLANNING                                                                                                                          

1. Your purpose came from God. Your vision is received from God. Your strategy must be inspired by God. “With all your heart you must trust the LORD and not your own judgment. Always let Him lead you, and He will clear the road for you to follow.” – Proverbs 3:5, 6. CEV                                                                   

2. Your purpose must be cast in stone. Your vision must be upgraded once it becomes a reality. Your plan must be flexible, ready for revision as occasion demands. Review your plan periodically, as the future is subject to changes not envisaged. “Don’t brag about tomorrow! Each day brings its own surprises.” – Proverbs 27:1. CEV                                                                                                                                 

3. Your planning must be based on researched facts and information. Read relevant books and listen to counsel from experienced mentors who understand planning and your area of interest. “Where there is no guidance, a nation falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”                                        – Proverbs 11: 14. NRSV                                                                                                                            

4. Your plan is useless without action. Your actions will not produce the desired result without the favor of God. You must therefore back every action with prayer seeking God’s favor and help. “We humans make plans, but the LORD has the final word. We may think we know what is right, but the LORD is the judge of our motive. Share your plans with the LORD and you will succeed.”                                           – Proverbs 16:1-3. CEV                                                                                                                                                     

HOW FAR CAN YOU SEE?

How far you can see determines how much you can achieve. And what you can become. Your vision is important if you plan to be successful in life. But the issue of vision is usually the last thing attention is given to when success is being considered. Yet it should be the first. What you see is what you become! 

The eagle is a bird known for its ability to see an object from a very far distance. An eagle can clearly see a rabbit from 300m above the ground and 1km away from it. Its eyesight is very sharp, four to five times stronger than that of human. Eagles have binocular and monocular vision. They can focus on two areas in each eye at the same time. They can see forward and sideward - and slightly backward. This is spectacular!

One of the factors that give the eagle its uniqueness as a predator and a glamorous bird is its vision. No prey escapes the eagle and nothing catches it unaware. It always has all things in view. Nothing escapes its notice. It is successful in hunting because it sees ahead, clearly.

As vision is important to the success of the hunting expedition of an eagle so it is important to the success of man in life. A speaker once said, ‘success starts with a vision. The race of life is a race to fulfill vision’. What you pursue depends on what you see.

What do you see when you look at a cob of corn? Do you see food or a farm? What you see will determine what you will do with the cob. If you see food, the corn will definitely land on your plate, get chewed in your mouth and digested by your stomach to give you energy for the day. And the undigested, evacuated into your septic system or if you are in Africa, into a bush somewhere, mixes up with the soil to serve as manure for a visionary farmer.

The man that see a farm, will plant the corn as seed on a fertile ground, tend it and in three months get enough corn to eat, sell and plant again. He will probably become the employer of the man that saw the corn as food in one or two years!

Vision is everything for a leader. It is utterly indispensible.

 Why? Because vision leads the leader.

 That’s a statement made by John Maxwell in his book ‘Leadership 101’ which I found to be very true. A successful man is a leader. A leader is a visionary man.

What do you see when you look at yourself?

What do you see when you look at your future?

What do you see when you look at your environment?

What you see determines your success and your fulfillment in life. You need to have a vision for your life. Make it an urgent matter to get a vision for your life. A vision that will inspire you. A vision that will turn your juice on. A blind man does not know where he is going except he is led. He becomes dependent on the one who leads him. Without your own vision you are dependent on others’ vision to live. You will always be in others’ shadow. Is that how you want to live your life?

Get a vision for your life, now!

CASTING A VISION

While standing guard on the watchtower, I waited for the LORD’S answer, before explaining the reason for my complaint. Then the LORD told me: “I will give you my message in the form of a vision. Write it clearly enough to be read at a glance. At the time I have decided, my words will come true. You can trust what I say about the future. It may take a long time, but keep on waiting – it will happen!”                                          – HABAKKUK 2:1-3 (CEV)                                                                                                                           

1. You have to stand guard on the watchtower, asking God for a vision for your life. He knows your tomorrow; He has a plan for you. ‘I will bless you with a future filled with hope – a future of success, not of suffering.’ – Jeremiah 29:11 (CEV)                                                                                                             

2. You must wait for the LORD’S answer. You must listen for his voice; you must hear what He will say to you. ‘Let me hear what God the LORD will speak, for He will speak peace to His people, to His faithful, to those who turn to Him in their hearts.’ – Psalm 85:8 (NRSV)                                                                        

3. You must write the vision clearly. What you hear God say you must write clearly, first on your heart and then in indelible ink. You must not forget it. It will guide you; it will inspire you; it will strengthen you. As you read it periodically, it will help you put things in their proper perspective. ‘Then the LORD said to Moses, “Write this as a reminder in a book and recite it in the hearing of Joshua: I will utterly blot out the remembrance of Amalek from under heaven.” – Exodus 17:14 (NRSV)                                                          

4. You must know that the vision is for an appointed time. So, you must believe it and run with it. You must be determined and persistence. Whatever might be the situation, you must endure till you see the vision become a reality. ‘and you will be hated by all because of my name. But the one who endures to the end will be saved.’ – Mark 13:13 (NRSV)                                                                                                      

  

    

  

WHAT ARE YOU LIVING FOR?

“I want to be rich. I mean stupendously rich. Have lot and lot of properties, famous and powerful. That’s life to me, that is the life worth living for.”
“I just want to be successful in my chosen career and be comfortable. Have a closely knitted family, train my children for a career and retire at a ripe old age with a good pension. Then become a respectable elder in the community. That’s all I want, that to me is worth living for.”

“I just want to be able to have food on my table, wear good cloths and have a roof over my head. The rest is extra, I’m not bothered if they come or not. As long as I have those three things I will be satisfied with my life.”

These are some serious answers you will probably get for the question above. But there are other answers which you will probably consider as less serious response, which are considered sufficient as an answer by the people living by them. Some you will call drifting, some confused and some useless. But the important question really is… what are you living for?

OUTSTANDING PEOPLE HAVE ONE THING IN COMMON: AN ABSOLUTE SENSE OF MISSION - ZIG ZIGLAR

Those three answers above have one thing in common – they do not answer the question. The question is asking for the purpose of their lives but they are describing the conditions of the life they desire. I will explain. An inventor creates a machine to be used for a purpose but to function at a particular condition. The condition is the well being of the machine, which is required for it to work efficiently. The purpose is the use the inventor expected the machine to serve. The question is asking for the use their lives are serving but they are describing the well being they desire for their lives.

This is the true dilemma of many people. We have substituted the condition we desire in our lives for the purpose to which our lives are created to serve. We spend all our energies, creativity and life span pursuing these conditions while the purpose to which our lives are supposed to serve is neglected.

What will you say of a car that is well maintained, well oiled, well protected and warmed every morning but never used to transport anybody? What will you say of a generator that is operated, refueled and serviced at due dates but never used to power any electrical appliances. What will you say of a life rich financially and materially but never fulfilled his purpose? It’s tragic and useless. Yet this is how many of us are living. Working very hard to achieve the well being we desire for our lives but becoming of no use to our creator, the world, our nation or community and leaving without a good report to give to our God.

It is important that we live under a good condition of life. That is the intention of our God and Creator. But it is useless if we live under a good condition of life but do not live fulfilling the purpose to which He creates our lives to fulfill. This is very important. It is very important for us to know what purpose God creates our life to fulfill and to live fulfilling it.

Now can I ask the question again? What are you living for?

STEPS TO DISCOVERING YOUR PURPOSE                                                                                                     

1. The creator and the inventor of our lives is God. It is Him that knows the purpose to which He has created each of our lives. If we must know and discover our purpose in life, we must go to Him. We must start a relationship with Him. We must get to Know Him and walk with Him. “You are the one who put me together inside my mother’s body, and I praise you because of the wonderful way you created me. Everything you do is marvelous! Of this I have no doubt. Nothing about me is hidden from you! I was secretly woven together deep in the earth below, but with your own eyes you saw my body being formed. Even before I was born, you had written in your book everything I would do.” – Psalm 139:13-16 (CEV)                            

2. God has an operational manual for our lives like every other inventor. In it He made known the general purpose of creation and the way He intended life to be lived. If we must know and discover our purpose in life, we must study this manual diligently. We must get acquainted with the general purpose of life and our Creator’s ways for living. This manual is the Bible, God’s inspired word. “Everything in the Scriptures is God’s Word. All of it is useful for teaching and helping people and for correcting them and showing them how to live. The Scriptures train God’s servants to do all kinds of good deeds.” – 2Timothy 3:16,17 (CEV)    

3. God’s words prepare our heart to know Him, doing the word leads us to meet Him. When we meet Him He shows Himself to us and reveal to us our specific purpose in life. It is when we walk according to His general purpose for creation and live in the way He intended life to be lived that we can begin to know Him. He begins to manifest Himself to us and reveal to us His specific purpose for our lives. “Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me. He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him.” – John 14:21 (NIV)